DON AND LORRAINE:
A LOVE STORY
By Michael
Swann
Promoters Don and Lorraine
Chargin, boxing’s Golden Couple, are so
joined at the hip after 46 years of marriage
that it is difficult to think of one without
giving thought to the other. In an industry
in which the word love is often associated with
greed, the two have operated as a team, demonstrating
an unmistakable ardor for the game and each
other based on a single doctrine - mutual respect.
Don, now 78 years old, received
his second’s license in 1945 and promoted
his first show at the age of 23, featuring former
world bantamweight champion Manuel Ortiz and
Eddie Chavez in the main event. Now after 61
years in the business, Don has promoted over
3000 fights and over 40 world champions have
appeared on his cards.
From the late 1950’s
to the early 1960’s Chargin was the matchmaker
for Jimmy Dundee at the Oakland Auditorium.
Then he was the matchmaker at the Olympic Auditorium
in Los Angeles from 1964 to 1984, working for
the legendary promoter, Aileen Eaton.
“But even then we had
our own boxing club,” Don recalled. “Sacramento
was always a great city for us. In fact, I was
so busy at the Olympic and Lorraine would go
up [to Sacramento] and do it all on her own.”
Lorraine’s voice was
detectable in the background and Chargin completes
the thought with more than a small measure of
pride in his voice.
“Yeah, and she used
to steal fighters from me, too.”
During his years with Eaton
at the Olympic, they put on some 1000 fight
cards, one fight card a week, earning him the
nickname “War a Week Chargin,” for
the memorable battles that took place there.
While it was commonplace for weekly cards to
be held across the country in the 40’s
and 50’s, by the 70’s and 80’s
the Olympic cards were becoming more and more
unique as a weekly attraction that produced
top-flight competition as interest in boxing
began to decline.
But Chargin was, and is,
an artist at matching quality opponents that
produced crowd pleasing fights.
Finally the great ride came
to an end.
“Aileen was very, very
ill, and she felt she couldn’t do it anyone,”
Don recalled. “The L.A. Athletic Club
that owned the Olympic wanted to sell the building.
They wanted to sell to Aileen, but she felt
she wasn’t up to it. So someone else bought
the building and part of the agreement was I
had to stay for two years with the new people,
and it was the longest two years of my life.
“I was so used to working
with Aileen who was one of a kind that it was
hard to be associated with anyone else. She
paid us real good, gave us a percent of the
business, and it was a great working arrangement.”
Eaton died in 1987, and was
inducted into the Hall of Fame in 2002, the
only female member of the hall.
“It’s a shame
that they put her in after she died,”
Don said. “She would have been so proud.”
Lorraine adds, “If
she was alive today she would be the foremost
boxing promoter. She had a mind like a steel
trap. She was a lady no matter what you ever
heard of her. She was tough, but she was fair,
and she was very caring. She and Don together
were just so amazing to be around.”
Starting in the 1980’s,
the Chargins continued to promote in Sacramento,
including champions Tony Lopez, Loreta Garza,
and Willie Jorin. In 2002, Oscar De La Hoya
named Don to serve as Senior Consultant.
Don Chargin was inducted
into the International Hall of Fame in 2001.
He was honored, but he had always hoped that
Lorraine would be inducted with him.
He says now that, “I
have so much respect for the Hall of Fame and
that would be the capper if she had a plaque
next to mine. Nobody knows more than I do what
she’s been to boxing.”
In Don’s induction
speech to the IBHOF, he concluded his remarks
by recognizing Lorraine:
“Everyone knows that
I’m a terrible, terrible details person.
I love to make the matches. But my wife Lorraine
does all the work. She does everything. I’m
not saying anything that everybody doesn’t
know. She’s been doing this for 40 years
and I think we have a great, great, team. I
wish Lorraine would stand up…”
The couple was honored jointly
by the Boxing Writer’s Association of
America in 2001 when they were presented with
the James J. Walker Award for Long and Meritorious
Service to Boxing.
Lorraine says that she was
so thrilled to see Don get inducted in the Hall
of Fame that she didn’t even think of
herself at the time. Conversely, when they received
the Walker award from the BWAA, Don kept saying,
“I’m so happy for you,” and
she would reply, “Goofy, you’re
getting it as well.”
“Actually, Don has
been my biggest booster,” Lorraine said.
“I feel that he should be given honors
and he feels the same way.”
Lorraine says that she feels
complimented by the support for her induction
in the Hall of Fame:
“I get kinda nervous
about it. I never felt there was a glass ceiling
for me. So I think it’ll happen, because
people in boxing know that I’ve always
been side by side with Don in the trenches.”
Lorraine says she does the
“grunt work,” the not so glamorous
part. I get to wear the black hat and he gets
to wear the white hat.”
Don disagrees, saying, “She
doesn’t do the grunt work. She does 99.9%
of everything.”
Don Chargin is well known
as one of boxing’s good guys, something
that can occasionally cause Lorraine considerable
consternation.
“It’s terrible
- for all the years I’ve been doing this,
I have less problems with other people,”
Lorraine sighs. “He sort of takes everyone
else’s side and I try to run it like it’s
a business. Anymore, I can see him in front
of a building giving away tickets to an event
- baseball, football, anything! The idea is
when you have a show you must sell tickets.”
Lorraine who has alternately
been called “Dragon Lady,” [she
hates that term] and “Boxing Mom.”
One writer said that she was a Dragon Lady to
fighters and the media, and a Boxing Mom to
fighters and the media. In all cases, however,
she is very protective of Don.
“I can be very soft
and very caring, but if someone does something
to Don I can be a “Dragon Lady,”
she explains. “He’s a guy’s
guy but he’s a very nice man, so when
I see people who think because he’s easy
going it makes him less than other promoters
who are much more vocal, then I get crazy.”
Lorraine described the story
of how she and Don met, evidence that not much
has changed despite the passage of years:
“My boss introduced
us. He said, ‘I want you to meet my best
friend.’ I disliked my boss so much that
I said, ‘If he’s a friend of yours
he must be a pig.’
“He [Don] was just
the nicest guy, and each time I saw him I said,
‘What a really nice man.’ He invited
my roommate and myself to a fight. I said, ‘Fine,
I’ll come but I’ll buy my own tickets.
Why should I take tickets from you?’ And
I still feel that way.”
THE GOLDEN BOY YEARS
“They have a very young,
but very capable staff there,” Don says
admiringly of his new employer. “In four
years it’s amazing what they’ve
learned. In the beginning I helped the matchmaker
out, but now he doesn’t need much help.
I’m just on call all the time for them.
“They’re a coming
organization. I wish I was in it when I was
a lot younger. Their CEO [Richard Schaeffer]
is so sharp, and here’s a guy that four
years ago had been to a few fights, but that’s
it. And I give Oscar credit for having the brains
to pick him and ask him to run his company.
“Oscar is learning,
you’d be surprised. Every once in a while,
he’ll call and ask about the styles [of
fighters]. He’s not just a figurehead
for that company. Oscar knows what the fighter
goes through.”
DON’S FAVORITE PEOPLE
“Aileen Eaton would
be at the top. Also, Russell Peltz, [the Philadelphia
promoter who Chargin says he most respects as
a promoter]. I’m a great admirer of Teddy
Atlas. Dean Chance -wow, what a great ballplayer.
Jack McCoy, a manager who passed away who was
my best friend - he had five world champions
that he started from scratch. And Dan and Kathy
Duva - I worked very closely with Dan before
he died. He was one of my closest friends and
we did many, many shows together, and I have
a lot of respect for Kathy.”
BEST MEMORIES
“There’s certain
fights when I look back,” said Don. “There’s
nothing better than to start a kid out and then
have him win a world title. You can sit there
and you won’t say anything to anyone else,
but that’s one time you can pat yourself
on the back and say job well done.”
DISAPPOINTMENTS:
“Loreta Garza was probably
the nicest kid we ever promoted, and he did
win a world title [WBA jr. welterweight]. And
when he lost his title to Edwin Rosario, we
were crushed. He was such a nice kid that they
didn’t tell us he went in with bad, bad
flu and didn’t want to disappoint us by
pulling out of the fight.”
“WE MAKE LISTS”
When Don Chargin said that
he had a list of the five sharpest people that
he had ever met in his life, it figured to be
fascinating, but who would have expected this
diverse group? (Not listed in any particular
order.)
“Aileen Eaton, Richard
Schaeffer, Roy Cohn [yes, the lawyer] - we were
going to do an Archie Moore fight together at
Candlestick [Park, in San Francisco]. The fight
fell through, but we got to know each other
and he was just so bright. Howard Hughes - I
worked for him for 14 months. He was just so
ahead of his time. He had this idea for pay
per view baseball. He had this huge warehouse
with all this equipment in it and needed someone
to watch it. He paid me $750 a week. Jerry Perenchio
- [The billionaire CEO of Univision, he co-promoted
Ali-Frazier I, and promoted the Battle of the
Sexes Tennis match between Billie Jean King
and Bobby Riggs.] - He hired me to help with
the promotion of the second fight with George
Foreman and Joe Frazier.”
THE BAD GUYS
During the entire interview,
not a single negative statement was made about
the sport or anybody in it. Don explained his
point of view this way:
“We have always operated
on the basis that you get one bite at the apple.
If we do business with somebody and they’re
not above board, we just don’t go back.
“In the thousands of
fights I’ve been involved in, I’ve
never seen one that I could actually say was
fixed.”
FINAL THOUGHTS:
“For years, my wife
and I had a pattern that after our fights, especially
those in Northern California, we would jump
in the car and stop in some small town along
the coast. The whole time we were talking about
the fight the night before, whatever fighter
we used the night before, and how far do you
really think we can take him? That’s how
we ended up here in Cambria [California]. We
kept going to these small towns and when we
hit this town we knew that was it.
“I tried to put on
the best fights that could be made. We’re
far from being rich. We’re comfortable.
We’ve had a great 46 year marriage and
there’s no regrets from either of us.”
The couple may have
no regrets, but to give this love story the
happy ending that it deserves, Lorraine Chargin
should have her rightful place in the Hall of
Fame, side by side with Don, as always.