By Norm Frauenheim-
ARLINGTON, Tex. – It’s been a journey that has taken a father and his sons from Phoenix to southern California to Omaha to Seattle and back again, all in a tireless search for peace among themselves and a quiet place that would allow them to prepare for the violence encountered against others in the ring.
It hasn’t always been easy or predictable. Then again, these kinds of trips don’t come with a guide. Travel at your own risk. Jose Benavidez Jr. and his two sons, David and Jose Jr., have. So far, the risks have been lessons. Fail at your own peril, and there’s been plenty of that. There was a gunshot on a Phoenix canal bank and positive test for cocaine.
But the fight to survive and perhaps prevail goes on Saturday night under some very bright lights in a ring atop the Dallas Cowboys homefield at AT&T Stadium with the youngest Benavidez, David, fighting for some redemption against J’ Leon Love in his first bout since he was stripped of the WBC’s super-middleweight title after a positive test last September.
“I’m more motivated than ever just to prove to the people and everybody that I let down,’’ Benavidez said in a conference call a couple weeks before his Saturday night return on Fox pay-per-view card (6 p.m. PT/9 p.m. ET) featuring Mikey Garcia against welterweight champion Errol Spence Jr.
That motivation was brewing back in October when David accompanied Jose Jr. to Omaha for his older brother’s loss by 12th-round stoppage to Terence Crawford in a wild bout, both dramatic and contentious. It was Jose Jr.’s first fight since he was shot in the right leg, above the knee, while running on a canal bank on August 23, 2016. It’s still not clear what happened. Nobody has been charged or arrested.
Days before Jose Jr.’s first fight since the shooting, David was restless. Jose Jr. did most of the talking that day and the next when he shoved Crawford in a weigh-in scuffle that could have canceled the fight. In the background, it was almost impossible not to see David’s impatience. He was restless for his own chance.
Finally, it’s here and it has come at a moment when David, now 22, says all of the fundamental planks are in place for a new beginning to a career that began with him winning a title at 20 years old. He was boxing’s youngest champion. There’s peril in that too.
“Nobody tells you that when you start making money … there’s no instructions that come with it,’’ David Benavidez told Los Angeles Times sportswriter Lance Pugmire in a terrific story. https://www.latimes.com/sports/boxing/la-sp-david-benavidez-boxing-20190314-story.html.
“That’s why some fighters get lost and feel like they’re ripped off. You live and you learn. I’ve learned a lot of lessons. Now, I know how to take care of things.”
Benavidez says he has emerged from his absence from boxing with a renewed love for the sport and his father. There had been stories about trouble between David and his dad.
Pugmire’s story reports that those issues were a factor in David suddenly signing a contract with Top Rank, which promotes his older brother. However, Sampson Lewkowicz already had a contract with David, nullifying the Top Rank deal and forcing David to return a $250,000 signing bonus.
A positive test for cocaine and a contract controversy awakened David Benavidez to the realization that his career had taken the kind of beating he has never sustained within the ropes.
“It wasn’t a good feeling to have everything you worked for taken away from you in an instant,” Benavidez (20-0, 17 KOs) said during the conference call. “But it happened and it just made me hungrier and more motivated to keep working harder and to get back what’s rightfully mine.”
Part of that task appears to be a step to resolve whatever issues he had with his dad. Jose Sr. hired a Scottsdale psychologist to work with David.
“I love you, I’m here, I’m here to help you achieve your dreams,” Jose Sr. said he told his son.
A father’s tough love has also included the miles that have taken his sons from streets that never go anywhere. The dad has seen those streets. Has seen where they lead. That’s why he’s moved his sons, first from Phoenix to southern California, then to Omaha and then to Seattle. It’s a lot of road work, but it’s a run away from the familiar dead end that a dad knows is always there.
The ultimate destination, however, is still the ring. There’s an old debate about whether a father should ever train his sons. Part of that debate might have been evident in David’s contract flap. But it’s probably a little early in the game to say the Jose Benavidez Sr. and his sons have resolved everything between them. No family ever stays out of disputes.
The difference is that Benavidez family also fights for a living, this time against J Leon Love instead of themselves, or a recreational drug, or a bad contract, or a mysterious gunman on a remote canal bank.
One thing, at least, is becoming more evident. The siblings, Jose Jr, and David, are a lot alike before a fight. Jose Jr.’s surprising trash talk at Crawford last October wound up with an ESPN bout that scored boxing’s highest television rating in 2018.
The talk resumed Thursday with David jawing at Leon Love (24-2-1, 13 KOs) with words that could have been borrowed from his brother’s rhetorical trashing of the feared Crawford, perhaps the best fighter in the world.
“You’re going to sleep, going to sleep Saturday night,’’ David said to Leon Love Thursday during an undercard news conference.
Leon Love looked around a podium that separated him from the youngest Benavidez and said: “Stop that tough-boy bleep. …Guess they do that in Arizona.’’
Turns out they do it everywhere. It only started in Arizona.